67岁陈道明“私生活”现阶段曝光：讨厌一个人，无需翻脸

aoming, he asked him: "How do you view the negative evaluation on the Internet?"

舒淇忠于地问道道：

Chen Daoming said firmly:

“要学则会在人前人后都不问道道别人，而且还要意味着别人在看似问道道你自己。

"Learn not to speak of others before them, and allow others to speak of yourself behind your back.

我其实我不则会管控这些一定会，所以一般来说采取的方式就是躲避，我不抬轿，我躲避远点这样一来。”

I know I'm not going to deal with it, so the way I always do it is hide. I don't take it, I just stay away."

他人有他人的橘红色，你有你自己的皎洁。

Others have others' turbidity, you have your own white.

与人见面也是这个凡事，每个人都有自己的考虑，考虑忍让不是退缩，考虑顺从也不是无能。

The same is true with people, everyone has their own choice, choose tolerance is not retreat, choose tolerance is not cowardice.

绝非，人这平生，总则会遇上一些羡慕的人和不羡慕的人。

After all, in this life, you will meet some people you like and some people you don't.

看穿并生活态度，是一个人凡事当中难得发人深省的修养。

See through and tolerance, is a person in the world of rare and valuable cultivation.

问道道起与人吵架，鬼谷子曾断言：

Speaking of getting along with people, Onguzi once asserted:

“觉人之伪，不形之于色；吃完人之亏，徐徐之于西南侧；施人之恩，不

发之于言；曾受人之惠，忠贞之于恨。”

"To perceive the falsity of man, and the absence of form to color; Eat people's losses, do not move in the mouth; A favor to others, noIn the speech; If you receive favors from others, do not forget them to your heart."

字面是：

“愚蠢别人虚伪的好似，淡然处之，不可表从前脸上；

"Hate the false side of others, calmly, do not have to show it on the face;

吃完了别人的亏，喉上不用问道道出来；

Eat the loss of others, the mouth need not say;

曾受了他人的恩惠，不能只在喉上深曾受感动，关键是要记在恨中的。”

When you receive favors from others, you should not just thank them. The key is to keep them in mind."

愚蠢却不问道道破，看穿不拆穿，不羡慕也能生活态度，这才是凡事的大智慧。

Hate but do not say through, see through do not expose, do not like can tolerate, this is the great wisdom of life.

正都是“画眉麻雀各有不同前奏，金鸡乌鸦各有不同山脚。”

Just as the so-called "thrush sparrow different voice, golden rooster crow different nest."

就像两个砌墙的人，一个问道道我悄悄砌墙，一个问道道我在悄悄建设项目的城市。

It's like two people who build walls. One says I'm building a wall, and the other says I'm building a city.

各有不同恨境的人，永远无法处在同一频率上。

People of different states of mind can never be in the same frequency.

遇上不值两件事躲避远，不和不免死中的逃生

亚当·波莱在《污中水车自然法则》中的问道道：

David Polet in The Garbage Truck Code says:

“这个世界上，有许多的人就像污中水车，他们装满了污中水于是从，充满懊悔、恐惧、失望的恐惧。随着污中水越堆越高，他们就必需找大都倾倒，除去。

"There are a lot of people in this world who are like garbage trucks. They run around full of trash, full of remorse, full of anger, full of disappointment. As the trash gets higher and higher, they need to find a place to dump it and release it.

如果你给他们机则会，他们就则会把污中水一股脑儿倾倒在你背上。

If you give them a chance, they'll dump all their garbage on you.

所以，有人想要这么好好的时候，千万不要借给。只要微笑，挥挥手，祝他们吉利，然后，继续走你的东路，这样你则会更幸福。”

So when someone tries to do it, don't take it. Just smile, wave, wish them good luck, and go on your way, and you'll be happier."

然而，在现实社会生活当中，很多人都好好勉强这一点，他们无能为力污中水人容易恐惧无法控制，结果在与之死中的逃生当中给自己带来碰巧妨碍，追悔莫及。

However, in real life, many people can't do this. They are easy to lose control of their emotions in the face of garbage people. As a result, they bring accidental harm to themselves in the entanglement with garbage people and regret too much.

问道道一件我前几天才遇上的两件事：

To mention something that happened to me just the other day:

跪公交的时候，一位小伙子不小恨碰到了一个当中年男子。

When taking the bus, a young man accidentally stepped on a middle-aged man.

被碰的男装还没有人问道道话，小伙子却抢先抱怨道：“你没有人长眼球啊，不其实往边上必得一下吗？”

Before the trampled man could speak, the young man complained: "You have no eyes, don't you know to move to the side?"

被碰的当中年异性恋立马回怼：“是你没有人长眼球好吗？真是脑子有病。”

The middle-aged man immediately responds: "You don't have eyes, okay? It's insane."

随后两人开始用各种咒骂对骂，直到一方到东站下车才中止了这场小事。

The two began to exchange profanities until one of them got off the bus at the station.

到公司后跟同两件事问道道起了这件两件事，同两件事问道道：“这是遇到了不免啊。”

To the company heel colleagues about this matter, colleagues said: "This is met villain."

我问道道什么完指为：“是啊，明明自己碰到了别人，反倒是先怪罪起了别人。”

"I listened and echoed:" Yes, obviously their own step on others, but is the first to blame the others.

同两件事摆了摆头：“我问道道的不是碰人的小伙，而是那个被碰的人。”

His colleague shook his head: "I'm not talking about the guy who trampled on people, but the one who was trampled on."

看着我一脸为难，同两件事居然问道道：“他被碰了明明是占理的一方，但是他以不免之道还了不免之恨，所以他也不占理了，他和那个碰人的小伙一样，都成了扰乱公共秩序的不免。”

Looking at me with a puzzled face, my colleague smiled and said: "He was trampled on is clearly the right party, but he took the way of the villain back to the heart of the villain, so he is not justified, he and the boy who trampled on people, have become a villain disturbing the public order."

毫无疑问有中水平的人，绝不则会被5楼次的人受到破坏好恨情，绝不则会跟5楼次的人无用自己的宝贵时间，也绝不愿意和5楼次的人死中的逃生抛开。

A person with real level will never be destroyed by low-level people good mood, will never waste their precious time with low-level people, and will never be willing to pester with low-level people.

遇上不值人不值两件事，很好的方法其实就是：不跟他死中的逃生，躲避得远超的。

Encounter bad people bad things, the best way is: do not tangle with him, hide far away.

马勒在《善恶的彼岸》当中问道道：

Nietzsche says in The Other Shore of Good and Evil:

“与VIII缠斗过久，自身亦被选为VIII。看不见牢笼过久，牢笼将回以看不见。”

"If you fight with a dragon too long, you become a dragon yourself. Look into an abyss too long, and the abyss stares back."

发现了吗？和不值人不值两件事死中的逃生，仍要曾受到妨碍的只则会是你自己。

Did you see that? If you mess with bad people and bad things, the only person you'll end up hurting is yourself.

就像老话问道道的那样：与一个人见面，要看他品性的最低处。

Just as the old saying goes: When you associate with a man, you should judge him by the lowest part of his character.

你或许扭转不住别人，但你可以扭转自己。

You may not be able to change others, but you can change yourself.

遇上不讲凡事的恶人，趁早远处；遇上无用恨中的的不值人，尽早原本；遇上影响恨情的坏两件事，努力调整。

Run away from unreasonable villains as early as possible; Meet the waste of sincere rotten people, as soon as possible to abandon; When encountering bad things that affect your mood, adjust positively.

与其较劲，不如多一份理解，不及一点偏爱。

Rather than struggle, it is better to understand more, less picky.

踏实，输掉在既有，输在挑剔

见到过这样一个小故两件事：

Have seen such a small story:

一只小乌龟厌倦了常年社会生活的小中水井，因为中水井的中水很不及，它已经未什么饲料了。

A little frog was tired of living in a little ditch all the year round. Because the water in the ditch was getting less and less, he had no food.

小乌龟每天都每一次地泡泡，想要躲避这个小中水井。

The little frog kept jumping every day, trying to escape from the little ditch.

它的朋友们每每懒洋洋地头在橘红色的中水洼中的，问道道：“从前不是还饿不死吗？你着什么急？赶紧别忙了，克尔一则会儿吧。”

His companion languidly squatted in the muddy pool all day, saying: "Isn't it still hungry? What's your hurry? Don't hurry up and rest for a while."

小乌龟没有人理则会朋友们问道道的话，依旧忙碌地泡泡跳。

The little frog did not pay attention to what his companion said, still busy jumping.

终于回来，它跳入差一点，跳进了旁边的一个大湖边，那中的面有很多有意思完的，而且比起小中水井大都也内部空间多了。

Finally one day, it jumped into the side of a big pond, there are a lot of delicious, and compared with the small ditch place is also much spacious.

小乌龟呱呱地呐喊朋友们：“你快上去吧，这个湖边大都又大，吃完的进去又多，简直就是天梯！”

The little frog croaked to his companion: "You come quickly, this pond place is very big, and the food is very much, it is heaven!"

但是它的朋友们问道道：“我在这中的已经从前了，我从小就社会生活在这中的，懒得动!”

But his companion said, "I am used to it here. I have lived here since I was a child. I am too lazy to move!"

不久，小中水井中的中水干涸了，小乌龟的朋友们也被活活饿了。

Soon, the water in the ditch dried up, and the little frog's companions were starved to death.

未大既有的人，一般来说目光短浅，受限制现状。

No big pattern of people, often short-sighted, satisfied with the status quo.

毫无疑问有既有的人，不懂不顾社会生活当中遇上的不值人不值两件事，专注于降低自己，进而和其拉开差距。

Truly organized people learn to ignore the crappy people and things in their lives and focus on improving themselves so that they can get ahead of them.

幸福最抱歉的，莫过于短时间内重新考虑了绝不会重新考虑的，固执地仍要了绝不会仍要的。

The most regrettable thing in life is to give up what should not be given up easily and stubbornly insist on what should not be insisted on.

俗话问道道：“马行软地易失蹄，人欺孤独易失志。”

As the saying goes: "the horse is soft and easy to lose foot, people are greedy and easy to lose ambition."

不迷恋孤独，不懂居安思危，这才是一种了不起的既有。

Don't indulge in ease, know how to prepare for danger, this is a great pattern.

一时间的玩乐轻于鸿毛，若将眼光挑未来，才能其实景色的宽广。

A moment of pleasure is lighter than a feather. If you take a long view, you can know the breadth of the scenery.

王彬之人，定当挑眼未来，能屈能伸，以退为进。

Great people, should take a long-term view, be able to bend, retreat.

成大两件事者，当以两件事两件事为重，举重若轻，既拿得起，也挑得下。

To achieve great things, when the overall situation of the heavy, light, both up, but also put down.

晚清名臣曾国藩问道道：谋大两件事者首重既有。

Late Qing Dynasty minister Zeng Guofan said: the first heavy pattern.

只则会吓坏树皮中的的鸟儿挑的鸟儿是不可能飞上云霄的，只有眼当中和恨底装满了纵横天地人的雄鹰才能自由翱翔于万中的之上。

Will only stare at the insects in the tree bark does not put the bird is impossible to fly to the clouds, only eyes and hearts filled with mountains and rivers of the eagle can fly freely above the clouds.

马东也问道道过，我们的幸福一般来说因为望著一条船只而忽略了一条河。

Ma Dong also said that our life often because we see a boat and ignore a river.

当你在5楼楼往下看的时候，可能则会见到很多污中水，当你推上高楼大厦再看时，满眼都是景色。

When you look down from the lower floor, you may see a lot of garbage, and when you look up from the tall building, you are full of scenery.

既有太短，恨就被仅限于了。

Pattern is too small, the heart is limited.

既有大了，再急迫的课题，也能迎刃而解。

The situation is big, no matter how difficult the problem, can be easily solved.

范仲淹问道道：“不以物喜，不以己情。”

Fan Zhongyan said: "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself."

王阳明问道道：“种德者，必养其恨。”

Wang Yangming said, "Those who cultivate virtue must cultivate their heart."

愚蠢一个人，而不反目，一般来说是不懂了，踏实输掉在既有，输于挑剔。

Hate a person, and do not turn over, often understand, life win in the pattern, lose in care.

人之平生，就是不断遇到，不断走散的过程。

Person's life, is constantly meet, constantly separated process.

我们没有人必要跟任何人和两件事太过较真。

We don't have to take anyone or anything too seriously.

为不免难过不或许，我们要学则会远处不免，提高自己。

It is not worth getting angry for villains. We should learn to stay away from villains and improve ourselves.

时间是用来享曾受社会生活的，不是用来无用在不免背上的。

Time is to enjoy life, not to waste on people.

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